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Cheat sheet chart titled Getting Married Money Checklist. Up and down: urgent at the top, can wait at the bottom. Left to right: smaller impact on the left, bigger impact on the right. Placement by corner, top left: Update your W-4; top right: Talk debts and credit, Update beneficiaries, Compare health plans; bottom left: Name change; bottom right: Cover each other, Joint or separate, Write your wills.

Life Events and Family

Getting Married Money Checklist

The money steps to take around a wedding, sorted by how urgent they are and how much they shape your future.

The sheet in words

Up is urgent (do around the wedding); down is can wait (do within a few months). Left is smaller impact (helps, but less); right is bigger impact (shapes your future).

  • Talk debts and credit

    Share the full picture early

  • Update beneficiaries

    Who gets paid if something happens

  • Compare health plans

    Marriage often opens a sign-up window

  • Update your W-4

    Withholding changes when you marry

  • Cover each other

    Life insurance if one relies on the other

  • Joint or separate

    Decide how to hold the money

  • Write your wills

    Say who gets what, in writing

  • Name change

    ID, Social Security, banks, employer

Money talks now are easier than money surprises later.

General education only, not a recommendation. Deadlines, health plan rules and legal effects vary by state, employer and plan. Education only, not investment, tax or legal advice. Sony Ho, Licensed Life Insurance Agent, NPN 18171750 · wealthprohi.com/check

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